As I write the blog this month, it is a strange and new world that I am observing. We are confined to our home here in France and I am sure that as well as health everyone has the same concerns about family, food, friendships and finances. We know that all of you reading this will have some or all of the same thoughts too. We wish everyone well as we move through this difficult time and we must reassure ourselves that it will come to an end and things will get better.
We have always said that The French Farmhouse was private but not isolated, however I can now tell you that it is isolated too!! We are getting used to “ Life in Lock down” at The Farmhouse and if we are looking for the positive, well then it has given us more opportunity to get things done. We are working our way through projects and adding a few that weren't on the original list. We have plenty of man..and woman power though the sourcing of some of our materials is getting a little tricky!
Every day seems like a Sunday, there is a new layer of quiet. One thing I noticed when we came to France was that on Sundays and Mondays, particularly in the winter, most shops were shut. This “closed time” which is also usually on a lunchtime between 12-2pm was something I had not seen or felt since the 1980”s. I think there is a more relaxed feeling to know that when you are stopping and having a day off, the locality has stopped too.
These are reflections that one considers when you have lots of time. I have signed myself up to a “Mindfulness course” via online learning. I have heard a lot about Mindfulness and thought it was time I found out more. I am keen to learn about all things “well-being” and my podcast app is littered with a range of casts from renowned and revered teachers of a healthy lifestyle. This is my interest and my mini expertise. Apparently we can all have a mini expertise, something we are interested in and have a little knowledge of...what’s yours?
I observe that nature does not seem to realise that we are in the middle of a pandemic, nothing has stopped her, the wisteria is breaking into leaf as are the hornbeams and the vines. The daffs are going over and the cowslips are once again holding centre stage on Tessa’s Cowslip Corner, they are about to be rivaled by the strong imposing irises. The herb garden is now partially planted up and the plants seem to be establishing themselves. One bed of the potager has been dug and planted with garlic and lettuce and the second bed is underway. The seedlings are standing to attention in the kitchen and wait for their chance to burst onto the scene.
In order to avoid going food shopping as often as I used to, I am being a bit more resourceful with our ingredients. A regular look at the larder and decisions are made as to what needs to be used next and then meals are planned. Years ago I bought a bread maker, in the time when bread makers, sandwich makers and slow cookers were on every gift list! The slow cooker I think has made a comeback and I use mine quite a lot whether it be to make soups, stews and more recently to cook chickpeas for hummus. Last week I re-discovered the bread maker and used it to make pizza dough, it was a success! The pizza was great and it used up all those bits of cheese and the end of a packet of grated mozzarella. Thrilled that the bread maker still worked after all these years, I became more adventurous and made a loaf, it was edible … but I can definitely buy better in the boulangerie!
At the back of the cupboard I discovered other ancient relics that have lingered longer that are probably useful. I have recently been listening to “The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying” by Marie Kondo. This is a popular book, though my copy is an audible version which I find extremely useful as I can listen to it while doing other things. I am still part way through this manual of a tidy life, but have so far learnt that when decluttering we should look at an object and ask ourselves “Does this spark joy?” If it doesn't then it should go!
Saying goodbye to March, I look forward to the future when this crisis is all over: when we can once again walk freely and shop for food, breathing in the spirit, culture and ambiance of a place. I am left wondering how this event will alter our society? Hugging friends and the “bisous”, one, two, three kisses on the cheek, will this change? Will we revert to the Victorian ways, the weak handshake in our carefully washed gloves? I wonder too if when the young children of today are older, will their children say to them “ Why do you always hum happy birthday, when you wash your hands”?